Maybe I’m wrong but I think every guy has experienced ejaculating too fast at one time or another. Of course not every guy wants to admit that and who can blame them. Aside from not being able to get an erection, not being able to delay ejaculation is one of the most embarrassing things a man can experience.
I remember vividly one particular time that it happened to me. I met this girl who really turned me on. The attraction was so strong that whenever I got close to her I felt myself getting hard! I mean this woman got me hot! She must have felt something for me too because it wasn’t too much longer before we ended up in bed. But not for long. She turned me on so much that I came within seconds. Needless to say I was mortified and though she didn’t say anything about it, she didn’t have to. She merely got up, got dressed and after a few awkward goodbyes, was out the door, leaving me to wallow in my own shame, embarrassment and gather up pieces of my shattered ego. To this day I cringe when I think about that night.
You know the worse thing about it? It had a residual effect. After that night for the longest time I avoided making any moves on any women because I was so afraid it would happen again. Just so you know, I’m not some super stud that beds women right and left, night after night. I’m talking about a dry spell of a long period of months. I was that afraid. The memory of that night haunted me. Still does.
If you’ve every had this experience, had the same problem of not being able to delay ejaculation, either occasionally or on a consistent basis, obviously you want to do something about it, otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this. If so, the Ejaculation Trainer is something you should look into and I’ll tell you why. Because it approaches the problem where it begins, in the mind! Sure you can get creams to rub on the head of your penis to deaden the feeling so you don’t ejaculate too fast. Or you can drink enough and that might allow you to last longer, that is if you can get an erection after consuming so much alcohol. But since everything starts in the brain, including sex and sexual attraction, doesn’t it make sense to tackle the problem where it starts? For my money the best way to solve the problem is to work on your mind.
Now whether you get the Ejaculation Trainer or another product or program, do me one favor: don’t give up. You CAN train yourself, you CAN work on your mental state to keep yourself from coming too fast. It make take a while, like it did me, but you can do it. Will you ever ejaculate too fast again? Probably. Admittedly I have. But for the most part, when I use my head, the one above my shoulders, not the one in my pants, I can use the exercises I have learned to control my urge to ejaculate too quick. But if I should backslide a little, I don’t let it worry me. I don’t give up and neither should you and usually the next time I’m able to control it. Again, let me emphasize you can control your urge to ejaculate prematurely.
I will say from my own personal experience, it does help if you’re in a relationship and have a steady partner. If you’re working on controlling the come-too-quick-syndrome through a series of one night stands, it might be tougher to get control of yourself because usually under those circumstances there’s more pressure to perform. Plus you don’t know how patient your bed partner will be or if you do climax in seconds, will she just get up disgusted, get dressed and get the hell outta there like what happened to me?
For my money it helped that I had a girl friend who cared for me and had the patience to work with me. I’m not sure I would have been able to control it as quickly if I had been sleeping with a different girl on different nights. Not that I always got that lucky. But you know what I mean.
So again, you can train yourself from ejaculating prematurely. Don’t give up. You deserve a good, healthy sex life.
For me, the Ejaculation Trainer does work. If you want to learn how to delay ejaculation, the trainer will give you exercises so you can keep working on your brain until you’re able to control your urges. I am convinced the mind game is the solution.
Don’t ever give up until you’re the sex partner that you dreamed you could be. There’s a terrific lover inside you so let it out!
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